I love the idea of a boudoir– a mashup between a bedroom, a bathroom, and a closet that’s your own private, intimate, personal space. It’s not a bedroom– maybe there’s a daybed or chaise in there, but it’s not for proper sleeping; it’s not a bathroom because, apart from a mirror or vanity, there are no proper washroom appliances; and it’s not a closet, because the word closet usually conjures up the image of a small storage space. No– a boudoir is a lady’s chambers, as much as a study or cabinet is a safe haven for men. And I want one.

A little attic boudoir– so cozy! I love how the light fills this room. It’s small, but has more than enough room for all lady-dressing needs. image via That Je Ne Sais Quoi

Color craze! The main frame of this room is classic and cool, while the details– rug, dressing table, art– is soaked in color. It blends masculinity and femininity in a modern and pop-y way. image via Gild and Grace

Boudoir for the bohemian– or for someone who isn’t such a clothes hound. I love the gorgeous brick and wood floors; I love that there are books galore in this space; and I love how mystical and serene it looks– the neutral colors, the dream catchers, the gauzy curtains. image via All the Luck in the World

Another blending of masculine and feminine details in this space– a sweet chandelier, clothes neatly arranged and displayed, pretty pieces of art versus a strong stripe, ornate fireplace, and assertive antlers. Again, the light in this room totally transforms it! image via Supayana

If you had this secret spot to hide in, you would never leave! So much color, so much texture and fabric and pattern, and– more importantly– so much fun! Again, I love how the clothes are out on display. It’s a boudoir, everything should be accessible and beautifully arranged! image via Prada Answer

Oh come on– you know I had to! Who doesn’t dream of living like Marie Antoinette? (You know, before the rebellion and all that.) The colors in the modern-day version of Marie Antoinette’s Versailles are calming and the furniture in her boudoir are strictly for lounging and eating cake upon. That’s all I’d be doing in my boudoir– eating cake. image via Pinterest

The prime decor requirements for my ideal boudoir are: a pretty chandelier or light fixture | lounge furniture | silky, translucent curtains | a lush carpet | cabinets or hanging racks where clothes and shoes can be displayed, not tucked away | a desk or vanity | fresh flowers | pretty, colorful art.

What do you think? Should we bring boudoirs back? Obviously people with a ton of interior real estate are going to be the prime candidates for this movement, but those of us with tiny apartments can make do as well…

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Hear ye hear ye Virginia runners! A fun race is on the horizon! On June 8, Ash-Lawn Highland (usually a wedding venue and gorgeous historical site) is playing host to the James Monroe 5k race as part of the American Heritage Race series.

Why should you run a 5k? A 5k is basically the easiest race distance for anyone to start racing, no matter if you’re a brand new beginner or an old pro. A mile is so short– it usually means people start to sprint from the get-go; not fun if you’re not feeling competitive or if you’re so new that your fitness isn’t ready for that kind of jolt. A 5k is 3.1 miles– long enough to allow you to go through a cycle of easing into the race, picking up speed, and then closing with a bang! It’s also such a popular race distance– even if you’re new to running, most runners you meet will ask you “What’s your 5k time?” Running one makes you feel like part of the secret runner’s club.

Why should you run a 5k at Ash-Lawn Highland? Not only is it fun to experience a historic site in this fashion– really, when else will you be allowed to stomp around Ash-Lawn’s grounds and explore parts of the property not usually on the tour?– but it’s also going to be a challenging course. It’s good to experience different types of terrain– running on flat asphalt for the rest of your life will leave you sore, bored, and plateauing (not seeing new results in your fitness). Getting some hills and soft surface in is wonderful training and pushing yourself through a new course is the best way to improve your fitness and gain motivation.

To give you an extra push–> this race is not just for time and personal satisfaction– it’s also for glory!  You can register a team (5 or more people) to compete in this race. Your team’s times will be added together and ranked in order of total time. The team with the fastest time will win the James Monroe Cup!

The details: head here to register; early registration is $25, while day-of registration is $30. If you want to enter a team, you must be registered by Thursday, June 6 | Information about the race and course is here. Start time is 8am for “fast heats and teams,” while any walkers and recreational runners will start at 8:15am | You can follow along with the race on Facebook or Twitter | this race is being organized by Notus Sports– follow along with their events on Facebook or Twitter!

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We all oogle over the grand, over-the-top, highly planned out weddings– you know, the ones with every single bit branded, surprise fireworks during cocktail hour, fire dancers for dinner entertainment, puppies as the wedding favors. But the celebrations that truly touch us and stay with us emotionally, long after they’re over are often the most straightforward ones. Patrick and Marie’s wedding was lovingly planned, flawlessly executed, and delightfully simple– and that’s exactly where its beauty comes from.

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Groom’s favorite moment: Watching Marie walk down the aisle. And the food.

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A standout detail: A sunny 70 degree day in December. Beautiful!

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First dance song: ”You’ve Got a Friend in Me,” Randy Newman (yes, from Toy Story)

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What’s next? We’ll be living in Charlottesville as Marie finishes up grad school and Patrick continues to transition into his new job with CustomInk.

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At first glance, Thomas Madrecki is your above-average cool guy: slim and attractive, hip and well-dressed, absurdly intelligent (he’s a University of Virginia grad, after all), and sweet. What more could you ask for in a friend?

How about a friend who just happened to fall into the culinary world and, with a bit of ambition and courage, landed himself a spot working in some of the most famous restaurants in the world? Or what about a friend who put together, on a whim, an underground dinner party– one of those ones you read about in the Washingtonian or on the hip blogs– to such success that he now throws monthly dinners for those in the know? Talent like that doesn’t just happen. Talent in Tom is manifested in a combination of guts and savvy, an taste for experimental flavor, and a nostalgic romanticism.

I met Tom through the Cavalier Daily– at a time when we were both major journalism geeks– and his path into the culinary world has been incredible to watch. Chez le Commis, his dinner party series based in Arlington, has quickly become fabled among DC foodies. Without much more blabbering from me, meet Tom Madrecki– you’ll likely be sitting at one of his dinners (or restaurants!) one day soon.

images of a Chez le Commis dinner by Scott Suchman for Washingtonian Magazine

You had an interesting journey into cooking. How did your passion for food, cooking, and culinary experimentation begin?

Tom: The things we call passions, the things we love, the things we identify with– I’m firmly convinced they have their origins in childhood. So I can’t say for certain what first set me down this path, but perhaps it was sorting peas with my mom when I was little. Perhaps it was the first bite of an ice cream sandwich. Those moments leave indelible impressions, and I don’t think I would be the first chef to admit to wanting to recreate something latent in those experiences. I think that’s true for everyone though– it is very human to long for childhood.

What was the inspiration for Chez le Commis? Why was this the route you wanted to go with your cooking career?

Tom: The idea for Chez first came about while sitting in my apartment in Paris– it was like 2 a.m., 3 a.m., and a friend of mine (who I met while working at Noma) was staying with me at the time. He and I were going back and forth about different cooking ideas, drinking beers, depressingly eating McDonalds because it was the only thing open at the time and it was in the same building as mine. And I was throwing out all these dish ideas, and I finally realized– this is what I want to do. I want to cook my food. I hate that saying something like that makes me sound like some overly-confident, impatient millennial. But I suppose that, to some degree, that’s what I am; I also think, though, that that is precisely the reason Chez succeeds. It’s too young and immature to realize risk.

What does a typical Chez experience look like for you– and what can your guests expect from the experience?

Tom: It looks like a stack of 100 dirty dishes, 50 wine glasses, 15 empty bottles and my living room being turned upside down. It also looks like 16 people having too much fun– actually smiling at dinner! I want people to relax, to enjoy themselves, to fall in love. Have too much wine– it’s good for you.

What are your current favorite flavor combinations?

Tom: Grapefruit and olives. Smoke and pork fat. Burnt limes, grilled asparagus and seaweed. Ice cream and ice cream. OK, seriously– I love some weird, interesting flavor combinations, but I also want to make food that’s tasty, that people enjoy. I don’t want my cuisine to be an intellectual one. I want it to be an emotional one.

One of Tom’s several appearances on DC morning television– hitting the big time!

Tell us the truth: what’s your take on the whole local food movement? Overrated or totally worth the investment (for restaurants and for home cooks)?

Tom: People need to understand that it’s not a choice between “expensive local” and “cheap normal.” Yes, some foods at farmers markets and organic grocery stores can cost more than their non-local counterparts. But if you’re smart, if you educate yourself about how to actually cook, you’ll save money and eat better. Instead of spending $60 on industrially produced crap at the Giant, you could spend that money on vegetables, eggs, maybe a chicken or two. You could make a whole week’s worth of dinners. To be fair, they’d be simple dinners, but you’d actually be eating real food. Your kids would be eating real food. And you would be happier, because the food would actually taste like something worth eating. At the end of the day, I don’t want to be a moralist– you know what, I enjoy some of that industrially produced food, too! But there are ways to pursue quality without breaking the bank.

What’s your dream culinary project?

Tom: Making pasta and drinking wine with my girlfriend. And opening a restaurant where the wine is $20-30 a bottle, there’s a few simple but awesome dishes that change every day based on the market, and a totally chill, laid-back vibe. I want to create the kind of experience I want when I go to a restaurant– the experience that never exists, but you always wish did.

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Cooking– and creating your own underground restaurant– is such an ambitious and courageous adventure– what’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?

Tom: I don’t think it’s cliche, because nobody actually does it… Good things happen when you follow your heart. A lot of bad things will probably happen, too, but I think you’ll always be happier at the end of the day if you respond to those feelings inside you rather than dimming the lights on them.

Where do you turn for inspiration? Chefs, blogs, restaurants, food photographers… 

Tom: I read and collect cookbooks, but it’s almost an academic exercise. You look at them so that you know what the rest of the world is doing, and then you try not to do that. Travel inspires me– the sights, the sounds, the feeling of being in a foreign land. Music inspires me– there’s something about the way it connects with us, in a way I don’t think the culinary world full understands yet. We have to get to their level. You know how some music comes on, and you have this very physical reaction? You just want to dance. And in a way, that’s my goal in cooking, to cause that physical reaction, but in this case I want to elicit a smile.

My perfect day is _____.

Tom: Brunch, Beach, BBQ, Repeat.

What’s next for you? What’s next for Chez?

Tom: Keep pushing. Chez isn’t where I want it yet; there’s so much we can improve. And maybe one day I’ll figure my life out, wake up and realize that it’s finally time to quit my day job and open a real restaurant. We’ll see.

Follow along with Tom’s culinary adventures (and hey, get yourself to a Chez dinner– maybe hitting Charlottesville one day soon!). Chez’s site | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram! All non-Chez dinner images courtesy Tom.

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You know that whole twitter trend, where people were re-tweeting statuses and adding in “THIS!” to indicate that they wish they’d tweeted the status first or were in complete and total agreement with the re-tweeted status? If I were nerdy enough, I’d post this thought with a simple, “THIS” as the caption and move on.

The past few days have taught me the truth behind this thought tenfold. On my recent travels, I’ve had the opportunity to hang out with people I’ve barely known and been thrown into stressful mis-adventure travel issues (oh, cancelled flights, you are so much fun) with near strangers– “ordinary people” I’d met before, but didn’t really know anything about. Every person has since completely blown me away and all I can think is, “Once you get to know someone– you don’t even have to know them intimately and fully and for years, just take the time to dig a tiny bit and get a glimpse of their personality– everyone is amazing. Everyone is beautiful and everyone has a strong story to tell.”

It’s so true. People who I’ve never given a second thought to are fascinating and kind and funny. People I’ve seen once or twice can make an hour breeze by with their interesting conversations. People I would have overlooked are now beautiful to me, because they have such wonderful personalities.

Get to know someone new this week. Give that stranger or friend-of-a-friend a chance. Strike up a conversation with an unknown coworker or neighbor. You will be amazed at what they have to offer.

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I’m in a bit of a jewelry craze right now– interesting and unusual rings and bangles are all that I’m craving these days! (I know, I’m totally late to the party on these trends.) Stumbling upon Hero King EmbellishmentsEtsy shop last week was a total dream come true…

If you’re a: Game of Thrones lover / quirky hip girl / interested in medieval or mystical adornments / obsessed with metals– Hero King is one shop you absolutely must swing by. Zachary Little, shop owner and maker, is based in Ohio; his pieces spring from his “fascination with objects, for their own quirky marvel, and as artifacts woven into human narrative.”

Every creation in his shop is one I would wear everyday; someone who doesn’t wear quirky or textured jewelry on a regular basis will definitely find a piece (or two or three) to throw in their jewelry cycle. Pieces range from $50-70 and are easily customizable (and Zachary definitely seems like the kind of artist that would fit in perfectly with the Charlottesville crowd). His crown ring and arrow bracelet are high on my must-buy list!

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I declare this week the time for adventures– for exploration, for pushing yourself just a bit farther, for embracing the uncomfortable feeling of un-knowing. Let love guide you, let your fearlessness shine, and put your best self out there. What do you have to lose?

There’s no better way for me to explain this feeling, this urgency, than with this epic shot by Katie Stoops. Let’s let Alex and Jeff’s love shoot in the California wild be our mental guide– exciting, yet serene, challenging, yet oh-so-worth it, full of love and sunlight and possibility.

happy, happy monday!

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I don’t think I can start another weekend link round up with the phrase, “OMG, can you believe it’s the weekend already?”… but is it me or is life moving awfully fast these days? I’ll often take a step back– usually during a run or workout– and think, “I’m going to blink and be at ___ (my race on Saturday, the US Championships in five weeks, Europe in July).” I had a coach tell me last year during a race, “It’ll be over before you know it.” Translate that to EVERYTHING, not just a race– it’s thrilling and scary and overwhelming all at once. Spend more time this weekend really soaking in the moment; it will be over before you know it.

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Some lovely links to inspire your weekend reading–>

-Summer is coming– and these drinks + treats are perfect for any occasion!

-My new favorite color combintation

-This piece, by my dear friend Katie, is beautiful inspiration.

-Have you seen the new Beyond the Flavor site? It is PERFECT. Two of my current favorite features– the Hill & Holler dinner and the Potter’s Cider boys.

-Talking Gatsby and classic lit over on Annie’s blog!

-We all love breakfast nooks– but what about the breakfast bench?

-Incredible beach wedding inspiration

-I just stumbled upon Andrea Hubbell’s series “Living Spaces” and am in love!

-Must read: date a boy who travels

-My wedding dress designer Kate has a chance to get BACK on Project Runway– head here to vote for her to compete again on Season 12!

-Powerful words from Gala Darlingstop making excuses!

-Key lime squaresYUM!

-Fashionista bridesmodern veil inspiration

-It was Popsicle Week over on Lexy’s blog– these recipes are the makings of an excellent mid-summer party menu!

-Have you tried out the A Beautiful Mess photo app yet? Go. Download. Now!

 

In case you missed anything… Photo I Heart | Recent Reads | Thought o’the Week | Make Merry! | Sweet Details | Hitched! | Team Jefferson On Marriage | Fitness Thursday | Getting Hitched!

 

happy, happy Saturday! xoxo 

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A surprise proposal is enough to sweep any bride off her feet– but a surprise proposal in Venice? This is what fairy tales and romantic comedies are made of! When Thomas, a California firefighter, began planning his proposal to Heather, he teamed up with Luca Fazzolari (remember this elopement we shared a few weeks ago?) to capture and celebrate the raw, romantic, authentic moment. What a lovely way to start off an engagement…

The plan: Thomas suggested that he and Heather visit San Giorgio Island by ferry, to get a view of a nearby church. Waiting for them was a dozen red roses, which Thomas presented to Heather one by one before getting on one knee to officially propose.

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After a quick ferry ride back to the mainland, Thomas and Heather wandered around Castello for a sweet– and timely!– engagement session.

images by Luca Faz Photographer in Venice | this proposal was submitted via Two Bright Lights

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I don’t want to bring up terrible stereotypes, but this one is unfortunately still prevalent in our culture. As women, we’re sometimes taught to shun competition– that being ambitious and working hard to get ahead isn’t ladylike and isn’t in keeping with the universal fellowship of women. I’m all for cheering on your friends and opponents– but to think that we shouldn’t be competitive just because we’re women is total bullshit.

There are times when I get lulled into an attitude of “it’s okay if I’m not the best”– or worse, “there’s no way I can be the best” (this goes mostly for my running, but also for other aspects of my life where being competitive is a good thing). I roll along for a bit, lifeless, going through the motions, and mentally disengaged, and then get upset and depressed when I feel like I’m not living up to my expectations or the expectations of those who I work with or depend on me. It’s the worst feeling in the world.

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I’ve been in this kind of funk with racing for a year now. After college, my races were lackluster, disappointing, and uninspired– because of burnt out or being unhappy with my living situation(s). I barely ran any “personal bests,” I rarely raced,  and I was confused. Maybe being a professional runner wasn’t going to be my thing… and maybe I didn’t really care. That spark I had in college seemed to be growing dimmer and dimmer with each race where I failed to live up to my expectations or potential.

And then… I ran a race at my home track at the University of Virginia. The race wasn’t a distance I specialize in, so there was no pressure. It was against mostly college girls, so there were no scary professionals to race against. I was racing in front of a hometown crowd, with old teammates, coaches, and friends there to cheer me on. It was AMAZING. I had no stress, very little anxiety (a bit of nerves is healthy before a race), and so much fun. Best of all– I ran a PB, my fastest time in that event EVER, which proved to myself that a) I was fit! fitter than I’ve ever been! and b) I still had it in me.

What happened? I was actually being competitive! I “remembered” how I used to be a complete badass and totally fearless when I raced and it all came back to me in that race. I wasn’t afraid of racing, I wasn’t afraid of my competition, I just wanted to race to win.

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I came back to normal training after that race and had a much stronger mental attitude (remember, mental toughness is the biggest fitness challenge I face). I was excited to do all the little exercises and stretches; I felt very zen in my workouts. I had recaptured that college fearlessness and felt like much less of a headcase than I had been the entire year prior. And it was all because I had embraced my competitiveness.

Being competitive is a must for your athletic life. Don’t think of it in negative terms– “I want to demolish that girl I don’t like in spin class” or “If I could just be thinner than that mom I run by in the park, I’d be happy.” Think of competing in terms of goals. If you have a fun set of goals you want to hit, you’ll be more motivated to want to improve in your fitness life– and more willing to do whatever it takes to get there. Find a friendly competitor to push you during your workouts and put yourself in competitive scenarios– races or performances– to get your adrenaline spiking. It will, in turn, make you feel so much more motivated, satisfied, and raring to get back to work when you hit your goals!

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Ignore all those who think you shouldn’t be competitive because you’re a woman. Being a confident and self-assured person– and athlete– is a way to fuse health and happiness. Go out and kick some butt!

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