One of the best (and easiest) ways to “wow” at your wedding is with papers. I truly believe that creative, beautiful, fun paper details (from escort cards to menus to actual signs directing your guests) are the best way to transform a good wedding into a great wedding– and the quickest way to sprinkle your personality throughout your day.

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This sign, on a guestbook table, is a modern and graphic detail that transforms a simple table, embellishes a travel theme, and gives us a hint about the interests of this couple. If you’re going the postcard route (where you have guests sign postcards, and place either in a mailbox or a pretty trunk/suitcase– have your maid of honor mail you one every day or browse through them on your honeymoon!), having a sweet sign with a travel mantra is an interesting way to add some pop to your guestbook display.

There are definitely Etsy shops that sell signs like this; your calligrapher or stationer could absolutely whip something like this up; or you could DIY it. Dig around and find a pretty paper map. Adhere it to a piece of wood, or place it in a pretty frame. Then, cut out letters (with a stencil or by hand) or find large letter stickers and spell out the fun quote or mantra you want to display. If you’re going the paper letter route, adhere it to the map with a spray adhesive. Finish off with a few coats of a clear sealer, to make it all smooth and polished– and voila!

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Oh, come on– you know we had to! As obsessed as we are with the book (and film) The Great Gatsby, we thought it only right to theme a May dinner party after this great American novel (minus the car crashes, affairs, and crushed dreams, of course).

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[ tablescape | string lights | flapper dress
roast chicken | cake pop | mint julep ]

While we can’t all throw parties as grand as Gatsby, we can throw a fabulous soiree of our own this summer– taking cues from Gatsby’s “roaring twenties” style. First things first– you need to have an inner and outer party space. If you can, snag some cheap, but beautiful, sheer curtains to drape your interior space with (a la Daisy Buchanan’s house); place cozy and comfy furniture (all the couches and armchairs you have) to allow your guests to lounge luxuriously. Dinner should be at a long table filled with candles and your glitziest tablewear– spray paint cheap silverwear gold for some extra flair!

Outside, hang white or colored string lights around your yard– EVERYWHERE. We don’t all have a pool, but if you do, make use of it! Play jazz standards (or Jay-Z, if you want to emulate the Baz Luhrmann Gatsby), dress in your best modern-day-flapper dress (something embellished and knee-length– and don’t forget a fabulous headpiece!) and ask your man to don a linen suit (or just something swanky). Grab a bunch of sparklers for the end of the night– a low-key version of Gatsby’s firework sendoffs.

Pass “tea cakes” (elaborately sprinkled or decorated cake pops could be a fun, modern version!) and dainty nibbles; delicious roast chicken must be your main course (yes, I’m grabbing at any reference to food I can find in the book). Oh– and mint juleps. Always!

Menu:
Cocktail | Mint Julep

Canape | Deviled eggs

Canape | Goat cheese crostini with blood orange and black pepper marmalade (ps. see more passed canape recipes here!)

Main | Buttermilk roast chicken

Side | Waldorf salad

Side | Peas and carrots

Dessert | Cake pops

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John and I are on a precipice– where we know we are going to make some changes in our lifestyle in the coming months, but the journey is still a bit unclear. We have a few potential end results and other than that… we have each other. But for as much as I worry (I’m a constant worry-er), I realized something yesterday: for all the crazy things I want to do with my life, there really is no better partner than the one I have. At the root of it all, John and I support one another and are willing to let each other live out our dreams any way possible– even if that means we have to make some sacrifices in our relationship.

I thought to this very image and quote during one of our conversations yesterday and it comforted me; it really IS all about who you partner up with (it doesn’t have to be romantically) on the road. Literally and figuratively. The best trips you’ve ever been on were likely with a cadre of incredible, supportive, fun people. The best moments of your life were probably the same. Really take the time to give yourself a once-over– who are the people you depend on the most? Is your everyday life (that’s the core part of the journey) filled with people who inspire you, support you, thrill you?

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“What was the use of doing great things if I could have a better time telling her what I was going to do?”

“‘Her voice is full of money,’ he said suddenly.”

“There are only the pursued, the pursuing, the busy, and the tired.”

To say I am excited for Baz Luhrmann’s remake of The Great Gatsby is a gross understatement. I am BEYOND excited (and yes, all caps are necessary). The Great Gatsby is one of my favorite pieces of literature– and that means something, because I’m obviously an expert with my masters in English. {To be quite honest, American literature, until the contemporary period, never really caught my attention. I love British modernism (happening at the same time F. Scott Fitzgerald was writing and led by the great Virginia Woolf) but the American writers of the time just don’t do it for me (the obvious exceptions: Faulkner and Hemingway).}

I loved Gatsby from the first time I read it in high school. Something about that glitzy, luscious, crazy world grabbed me. This was my third re-reading of it, and I have to say, Gatsby is like a fine wine: it just gets better with age.

By now, you probably know the plot. Nick, a guy from the Midwest, comes to the East. Shacks up next door to this Gatsby fellow, who throws the best parties. Hangs out with his cousin Daisy, her husband (crazy, racist, sexist Tom), and the mysterious Jordan Baker. He meets Gatsby, gets to know some of his self-made history, and learns about his old love affair with Daisy. Gets wrangled into putting Daisy and Gatsby back together; there’s a fight with Tom; a car crash; then a tragic, tragic ending.

What stood out to me this time, as a 25-year-old, were three things: first, this was an incredible period where people SAID who they were and it was believed. There is this theme of spoken untruths, that I would definitely write a paper about if I were still in school. Gatsby depicts a magical time period where if you wanted to be someone, you said it, and voila– you were it.

The second stand-out was just how beautiful Fitzgerald’s words were. The words! The man put sentences together out of nowhere that made me stop, read again, repeat five times, double back again later… Gatsby is truly a book of special significance to literature. Fitzgerald said he wanted to “write something new– something extraordinary and beautiful and simple & intricately patterned.” He did. Read it and really pay attention to the form, not just the story.

And, finally, this reading made me really dislike everyone. I’m sure that’s the point, deep down– that we’re all frauds– but it really stood out to me this time. I didn’t like Nick. Sure, he’s the last one standing by Gatsby’s side at the end, but he’s a jerk to him so often. Dismissive, rude, judgmental– who is Nick to be judgmental? Daisy’s a mess, Jordan’s kind of a bitch, Tom is gross, and Gatsby… well, I just kept picturing Leo as Gatsby this time and I couldn’t help but adore him. At the end, it reads as if Nick is blaming the East for creating the disastrous summer he had– that he believes the Midwest is purer, calmer, better. I disagreed. It didn’t stop me from loving the book, but it did make me skeptical of Nick as the narrator (I would make the argument that you’re supposed to question his reliability as the storyteller).

The movie is sure to pale in comparison to the book– but it is sure to be a masterpiece in its own way. Even if you’ve already seen it, go out and get a copy of the book. It’s a fast read, gripping and entertaining– truly a book to be treasured.

fun illustrations by Fred Meyer via my Collector’s Edition Great Gatsby

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Can I talk about how much I adore Jason and Tammy Keefer? Not only are they fun, beautiful, COOL people– their photographic style is one of a kind. We live in a town with a plethora of photographers, which is a great thing… but yes, the issue of style and diversity and standing out is admittedly a tough one when everyone wants to emulate that Jose Villa, medium format film style or that sharp, crisp digital style. Making a photograph stand out as undeniably you can be tough for any photographer at any skill level in the wedding industry. But Jason and Tammy… their photography is unapologetically unique and refreshing. Their perspective is sometimes dark, a bit more on the raw side, but always, without fail, jaw-dropping and beautiful.

I love this shot. It’s the Keefer take on the bridal portrait– a gorgeous woman, a white dress, a bouquet of flowers– and yet it’s not. The realness of the moment, the interesting patterns of light and texture of her surroundings, and the obscurity of who this bride really is just intrigues me. It’s an incredible photo and just the right way for me to kick off the week.

happy, happy monday.

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Another week flown by, another weekend to celebrate! It’s been a lazy, relaxing morning thus far… I’m trying to finish up The Great Gatbsy before John and I see it on Monday (I’m traveling and can’t see it without him!). I’m enchanted by the text– F. Scott Fitzgerald is a master with words. He makes the simplest scenes come completely alive with his words! Reading it again (for the first time since high school or maybe early college), I’m starting to dislike Nick more and more… he’s just as silly and selfish as Daisy, Tom, and Gatsby. But we’ll see…

Let’s spend the entire weekend floating around, just so… Jessica Stam by Solve Sundsbo for Harper’s Bazaar via Belle de Jour 

A nice, long list of must-reads to inspire your perusing this weekend–>

-If you read anything this weekend, to touch your heart and refresh your mind, let it be this.

-Love this beachy styled shoot by Style By Design (it’s the first post on Sarah’s blog)

-#yesplease– I want a Hashtag Banner! (via Swiss Miss)

-The Knot shares some fun ways to “wow” with details at your wedding

-”Fox-adorned” tableware. YES!

-Wedding o’the week: this delightfully Southern Murray Hill wedding over on Wedding Chicks!

-DIY o’the week: the easiest no-sew cloth napkins by The Sweetest Occasion!

-Yup: 17 ways to tell you’ve been in a relationship forever.

-These thoughts from Stephanie, on what she’s learned from Marie Forleo, are oh-so-motivating. Thanks for sharing Steph!

-Obsessed with these colors.

-We’ve featured Cheryl and Peter’s engagement shoot and wedding by Cramer Photo– and now it’s so fun to see their maternity shoot on the Inspired by This blog!!

-I’ve moaned about all the Great Gatsby inspiration out there… but this shoot over on 100 Layer Cake is totally stunning!

-Words to mull over.

-I LOVE this engagement shoot– two musicians who emulate classic musician-couple-shots!

-Looking for floral interior decor inspiration? These pieces over on Em Henderson’s blog are gorgeous.

 

In case you missed anything–> Photo I Heart | Finds | Thought o’the Week | You Should Get to Know… | Hitched! Erin & Jeremy | Fitness! | Getting Hitched! Amanda & Justin

 

happy saturday!! xoxo

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Amanda & Justin’s engagement shoot by T. C. Engle Photography is the dreamiest, most romantic love session– the perfect way to kick off the weekend! Amanda & Justin have a special connection to the Manhattan Beach Pier and chose the iconic spot to flirt and play while Tara captured it all with these breathtaking images. Whether you live near a beach or deep in the middle of the country, these sunset shots are absolutely inspiring…

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An INCREDIBLE long red dress? You know I’m in love! 

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images by T. C. Engle Photography / this session was submitted via Two Bright Lights!

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Lately, I’ve had a few women ask me how they can get excited about bringing fitness, in general, back into their lives– maybe they’ve had a baby or two, or maybe they’ve just been so focused on work and life that the thought of going to a gym or even going out for a run seems daunting or undesirable. When I think back to how I first got into fitness, I think of my mother. As a child, I would frequently accompany her to the local middle school track, where she would run laps and I would try to keep up. She instilled some kind of discipline and desire for running that (clearly) comes through in my current choice of exercise… and, obviously, my body type and affinity for long-distance, endurance-based fitness must come from somewhere! So my first reaction, now, to the question, “What should I do for fitness?” is: work what your mama gave you!

Think about it two ways: what kind of attitude towards fitness did your parents instill in you? (don’t worry; if you were raised in a decidedly un-sports-loving household, you can still embrace fitness today) and what kind of body type do you have? 

image via Saltwater Kids

Look back at the types of sports you did as a kid. Where you part of a soccer team or a softball team? Did you do big group classes of gymnastics or ballet? Or were you more of an individual, a member of the swim team or part of your high school track team? Recognizing the environments in which you practiced fitness as a child can help you find a niche today. If you were always a team player, consider joining your local outdoor adventure club or adult sports team– flag football, rugby, soccer, even competitive frisbee could be your exercise of choice! Meeting up with friends for “practice” and competing as a group might be the best way for you to have fun while getting exercise.

Likewise, if you were an individual athlete, finding an activity conducive to that competitive spirit and self-focus might be a better fit: yoga, pilates, cycling, Crossfit– all could play to your natural urge to be on your own, while giving you a community of fellow individuals to turn to when you need inspiration. And, if you avoided sports like the plague as a kid, look at your other social activities: were you part of a team/social environment or did you like doing things on your own? If you were more of a “loner,” doing something super social for fitness might be a major turnoff– working one-on-one with a personal trainer might be more your speed than jumping onto a team.

image via Jokeroo

And, of course, there’s the issue of what you can physically do. Not everyone is meant to be a runner or a rower or a soccer player. Think of your body in three categories: endurance, flexibility, and fearlessness.

If you have good endurance, high intensity sports could be for you– running, biking, swimming are all high-performance activities, where you’re rewarded by enduring longer. Consider training for a triathlon or a road race! If you’re super flexible, try something totally unexpected– ballet or zumba, yoga or even one of those sexy pole dancing classes. And if you’re fearless, embrace it! Water sports (like kayaking), Tough Mudder races (where you run through fire!), or Crossfit are all types of exercise that really challenge you mentally as well as physically; if you can push through pain or allow yourself to do something slightly scary, you’ll enjoy the actual exercise so much more!

Thankfully, these are all qualities that can be improved upon– so if you’re more of an endurance athlete and not very flexible, trying something that challenges that flexibility will give you tremendous results! But if you’re just starting out with fitness again, playing to your strengths will lead to more fun, more enjoyment, and more exercise!

Next time you’re struggling with your fitness or asking yourself, “Why should I exercise? I don’t know what to do!” take a step back and examine yourself and your fitness history. What didn’t work before probably won’t work now. If heading to the gym is a drag, sign up for a team and make exercise a social occasion! If the thought of working out with a big group of people is terrible, find something you can do completely on your own– and then go out and do it!

What is your favorite form of exercise? Does it fall in line with the type of athlete you were as a kid? How do you challenge and embrace your body?

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To say we’re thrilled to have our wedding featured in this summer’s The Knot (VA/MD/DC edition) is an understatement. To hear that they loved it so much, they wanted to share it early with their brides on their blog is amazing!

We’ve kept a lot of the images and details under wraps until we knew where our wedding would be published… it’s honestly a long process of sending it around to a few select places and then playing the waiting game– seeing who wanted it for their blog or who wanted it in print. And while it’s a total honor to have your wedding published (they like it! they really like it!), it’s also very strange. Our wedding had so many quirky, personal details… some cool ones that could easily be translated to another couple’s wedding and some that were probably super weird and exclusive to our tastes. Are there any other couples out there who are pro athletes, interested in Hispanic flavors and traditions, and obsessed with foxes? Hmm…

Our little fiesta is supposed to go on another national blog, but because The Knot jumped the gun with some of our images, I’m excited to start sharing our wedding here. So stay tuned– I seriously have a list of dozens of topics and details I want to share with you!

image, of course, by Jen Fariello | cute little table numbers (in Spanish, of course) by Shindig | floral design by Southern Blooms | rentals by Festive Fare

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Some couples can take a trend– rustic, DIY chic, in this instance– and truly transform it to perfectly fit with their personalities. It doesn’t feel cookie-cutter or even “trendy” if it’s infused with your energy and excitement! Erin & Jeremy’s Chatfield, Colorado wedding incorporated some of our favorite details– cupcakes, homemade jam favors, DIY fashion and accessories– and took them to a meaningful level. If you’re craving a lovely, simple, joy-filled celebration, Erin & Jeremy did it just right.

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Our love story: When Jeremy and I met in January 2008, we knew right away that we would end up together. When we were together, we were so into each other everything around us would stop–we called this “being in our bubble.” We learned early on that moving out west was a common goal so we saved up together and moved from Wilmington, NC to Denver in October 2009.

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The proposal: For my birthday, November 27, 2010, he took me out to dinner and presented me with a book to Costa Rica with plane tickets inside for February. I was so excited and had an inkling that he may propose there but wasn’t sure. When we got to Costa Rica we stayed one night in San Jose and then drove to Manuel Antonio and stayed at a cute bed and breakfast. Once we were settled the owner told us about this private cove down the road so we decided to go check it out. Jeremy was very adamant about it but I didn’t think anything of it– I just thought he was excited to explore.

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The proposal, cont: We when we got to the cove, it was mainly deserted so we laid out our beach towels and cracked open our beers. As we are sitting there I started to think about whether he was going to propose but ended up telling myself to stop thinking about it because if it didn’t happen, I didn’t want it to ruin our time. My thoughts were interrupted by Jeremy telling me how much he loved me and by the time I completely tuned in, I see that he’s shifted to one knee and he was reaching into his pocket. That was my cue to pay attention but it took me awhile to switch gears from telling myself to stop thinking about whether he was going to propose to him actually proposing right then and there. I was so shocked by the time I realized this that I didn’t say yes right away. I finally managed to say yes and we embraced and cried and didn’t stop talking about it the rest of the trip.

The proposal, cont: In Manuel, Jeremy presented a ring that his mother gave him as he didn’t want to bring the official engagement ring on the trip. When we got home to Denver our friends and family were waiting at our house and threw us a surprise celebration. Jeremy presented the official ring to me then. The diamond belonged to his great-grandmother who he refers to as “Big YiaYia” (Greek) and he had it placed in a setting with two sapphires on either side. He told me he chose the sapphires because he thought I would like them, and he was so right!

Jeremy and I were engaged for a year and a half before our wedding. We had plenty of time to research vendors, work on projects and save money for the wedding. We made all our decisions together and did most of the work ourselves. I’m glad we had so much time to plan and save but it did dominate our (or at least my) thoughts on a daily basis so it was nice to actually have the wedding and be done with all the planning! We called on our friends and family to help out instead of getting so many vendors involved. I had close friends make the flower arrangements, my mom and aunt made the cupcakes and we had friends be in charge of the music. Overall things came together the day of the wedding and it turned out better than we ever imagined!

images by Elevate Photography | this sweet wedding was submitted via Two Bright Lights!

Vendors:
Venue: Denver Botanical Gardens at Chatfield
Caterer: The Food Guy
Dress: The Altar

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